She Let Go

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She Let Go by: ERNEST HOLMES

Have you ever felt the pressing need to let go of something or someone but kept hesitating? You know you need to Let Go, everything within and the signs all around you are telling you that you need to let go, but you hold on and it’s often to your detriment. Maybe you’re holding onto your past? An old friend who you no longer vibe with? An ex you’ve been allowing to take up your time with his issues? Maybe it’s a job that is sucking your soul away. Or old thought patterns that keep getting you in trouble?

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The Mother Wound

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According to the Mother Wound Project, The mother wound is all the pain someone carries with them that comes from being harmed in one specific way or in many different ways by their own mother. This harm might have occurred when they were a baby, a child, a teen or an adult, it might have been short term (i.e. a one-time event) or long term (i.e. ongoing), and it might have been emotional, physical, religious/spiritual, financial and/or sexual in nature.

In a nutshell, for both males and females, it’s when your mom who carried you in her stomach for 9 months never, has or doesn’t know how to connect with you emotionally or with intense feeling. It’s a deficit in the mother-daughter or mother-son relationship that is passed down through generations and is a reflection on how we have experienced parenting and affects how we parent and how we navigate relationships.

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https://www.motherwoundproject.com/

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/11/111110142352.htm

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The young lady who helped me through my Mother Wound

Shannon Leigh Thompson – Change Catalyst + Motivator | Speaker

https://www.facebook.com/shannonleighthompson

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#motherwound  #mothersday #mother

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RED FLAGS on STEROIDS for the Strong & Confident Woman

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Be aware of the wolf in sheep’s clothing! When someone tells you who they are, listen, but, when someone shows you who they are, now that’s when you pay close attention AND with laser focus. Your nature may be to be very loving and caring. You’re exactly what the predator is searching for. “Let’s get straight to the point, shall we. We go after vulnerable women. Yes, we target you and then we trap you. It’s what we do. It’s in our nature.”

Here’s the link to the video:  Vulnerable an Abuser’s Perspective.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ve1eu_lWdpU

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I Love Being Single

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So tell me, what is the difference between being single during the holiday and being single any other time of the year? 

You are not a leper, pitiful, less-than, or an old maid. You are who you are…right now…for such a time as this!

You’re single, period. You don’t have an interminable disease, but you do have to stop looking at other people’s lives and comparing them to yours. Remember, things are not always the way they seem. Not every smiling couple is happy. Truth be told, some married couples wish they were single.

Just think…as long as you dread being single…that will be what’s foremost on your mind. Don’t confuse being single with being lonely. You can be happily single and still have a fabulous social life. So as long as you go around sadly Single, you’re wasting valuable time. Get the most out of being single, explore yourself, learn new skills, and meet different people. Stop wasting time because time is precious. What if you get to the end of your life and have wasted all of the gifts God has given YOU? The people’s lives you were meant to touch won’t get what only YOU can give them.

mindbodygreen.com/articles/how-to-be-happy-single

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Opportunity…is that You Knocking?

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What is opportunity? According to the first definition in The Free Dictionary it means: A favorable or advantageous circumstance. Well, that’s not the definition I want to explore today. Conversely, I believe that any problem in your life is a chance for an opportunity. Ouch, Yvonne. The dictionary says a favorable circumstance and the last time I checked we don’t look at our problems as opportunities. That’s what I’d like to address, today…problems. Anytime most of us have a problem we look at it as, oh boy. Another circumstance that has come upon me.

https://www.inc.com/jayson-demers/how-to-change-your-mindset-to-see-problems-as-opportunities.html

www.rcblakes.com

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Intentional Self Forgiveness

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Do you want to forgive yourself? It may sound like a silly question, but you have to WANT to forgive yourself is to be able to forgive yourself. Will you be able to do this perfectly? No, because no one is perfect, so let’s take that expectation off of the table before we get started. Forgiving yourself is a process, but it is well worth the process. According to Lewis B. Smedes “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and realize that prisoner was you.” 

#forgive; #loveyourself 

#Will Smith

#loveyourself #selflove #truth #god #selfcare #jesus #thankful #meditation #faith #hope #church #believe #gratitude #soul #healing

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I Am Who I Am…Right Now

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I am who I am…right now gives you insight into awareness. It makes you take a deep dive look at the person you are, right now. The person you are right now can change, especially if it’s not aligning with who you want to be or how you want your life designed. By telling yourself I am who I am, right now, you are opening your mind to possibilities. It is possible to change a habit but you must sincerely want to change the habit.

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I Am Who I Am…Right Now

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I am who I am…right now gives you insight into awareness. It makes you take a deep dive look at the person you are, right now. The person you are right now can change, especially if it’s not aligning with who you want to be or how you want your life designed. By telling yourself I am who I am, right now, you are opening your mind to possibilities. It is possible to change a habit but you must sincerely want to change the habit.

COMMENTS: yvonnetheauthor@gmail.com or 872-256-3072

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What the H E_ _ are you doing…You Know He’s Married

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Today, I’m going to navigate from my norm. I’m going to speak about a pet peeve of mine that…well, let’s just say, it takes me there. I’m not asking for opinions or confirmation today. This is all about me being in my feelings and speaking my mind. Yep, speaking my mind. I titled this one, What the He double hockey sticks are you thinking…he’s married.  Why are you dating a married man? I don’t understand. I’m talking to you. You who either know he’s married because he’s wearing a wedding band; you who see the discoloration on his finger of where his ring used to be, that he just pulled off, before approaching you; you who was approached by a man who is married but is not wearing his wedding band and when you asked him if he’s married he said yes, but…

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https://www.brides.com/sue-for-alienation-of-affections-1102874

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He Said

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Trigger warning: I discuss the act of rape in this episode.

What did he or she say? They said something that hurt your feelings, made you think…what’s REALLY going on or said something that you want to believe so much that no matter what their past behavior was, you believe it anyway. Not only that, you continue to believe it until the lie hurts so bad…you have no other choice than to let that person go.

Did he tell you he loved you, but his actions showed something different? He said he loved me, but I keep catching him in lies. He said he loved me, but cheated on me. He said he loves me, but raped me.

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